Something very special coming soon!

Things have been a little quiet here at Ultimate Au Pair lately, so we just wanted to say thanks for being patient! We have something special planned for our big relaunch in December and we hope you’re as excited as we are. If you’re an au pair blogger, agency or tourist company in Paris, make sure to send an email to to see how you can get involved.

We’re looking forward to sharing it all with you soon, in the meantime why not have a look over our au pairing top tips?

The UAP team x

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Should I live in the suburbs?

Found your dream family but they live in the suburbs of Paris? Want to know what other au pairs think about suburban life?

Read this article by AJ, entitled “On the Outside Looking in: Living in the Suburbs”. She is an american au pair who gives an honest opinion of life in the suburbs of Paris.

Feel free to leave a comment at the bottom of the post!

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5 Ways to stay safe as an au pair

Get to know your family
It’s easy for things to get a little overwhelming when you’re living with a host family. Whether or not you make friends with your host parents depends on various factors such as personality, age, stress levels of everyone involved and time spent together. Sometimes it works out, and sometimes it doesn’t.

But whether you’re a live-in or live-out au pair, the family can be a great support system if you get on well….(click title or photo to see more)
By Olivia Brett (Editor)

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Coming soon…

Hello everyone,

Ultimate Au Pair is taking a short break over the summer, but we will be back in a few weeks with new bloggers, an updated look and lots of new articles! In the meantime why not have a look at our advice pages?:

Thank you again to everyone who contributed to the blog last year! If you would like to blog with us, you can use our contact page to get in touch…(Click title or photo for more)
Olivia (Editor)

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10 tips: Leaving your host family & Paris

So, the time has come to leave your host family, and it often comes with A LOT of mixed feelings.

Let’s set the scene; you’ve been working with the family for almost one year, you feel sad to leave the children, but guiltily happy to leave behind some of that stressful responsibility (just being honest). You have suddenly realised you need to move your whole life out of the 13m² box you call home and can’t work out how you…(click title or photo to see more)
By Olivia Brett (Editor)

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Advice from former au pairs!

Hello again!

Summer is change-over time for au pairs and we have lots of practical advice and top tips to help you start work/leave Paris/choose a family/find friends/know if you’re paid enough etc.

I’m looking at ways to update the site in August to make our advice pages more easily accessible, so in the meantime I would love to hear from you about any suggestions, comments or contributions to the site you may have!…(Click title or photo to see more)
Olivia (Editor)

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Weekly Diaries

We have many au pair writers based in Paris who contribute to our blog. Each has their own style and shares their experiences differently! We are currently looking for a new writer to begin a weekly diary starting in August/September 2016.

Have a look at our current blogger’s weekly diaries to see what its all about. Don’t hesitate to send a message via the contact form if you’re interested in blogging with us 🙂


Olivia (Editor)

Ways to find friends – Social Media

1. Groups for au pairs :

There are endless groups on Facebook dedicated to au pairs! It’s easy to join a few, go to the events advertised on there and meet other au pairs. Don’t be scared to post on the groups yourself, asking if anyone wants to meet up for coffee or to explore!

Most groups for each city will stay the same each year and simply change their name. Sometimes you will be contacted by strange people (…often guys) who look at the au pair groups as a way to meet nice foreign women. Be wary!

Some au pairs leave their families and advertise on Facebook which can be this can be really helpful. BUT some who say that hey are leaving the family…
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By Olivia Brett (editor)

Looking for an au pair or nanny job?

– Where to start –

Job hunting can be really difficult when you don’t know where to start! For detailed information about applying for an au pair position, have a look at this article: Au Pairing – How to Start your Journey.

Below is a quick list of websites to help you to begin your search. Rather than recommend one particular agency, I have noted down websites that I know of to help you find the right match.

If you are looking for a position with accommodation (living with the family or in a small independent studio/room), with food and other perks provided as part of your pay, then the first list is for you:

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By Olivia Brett (editor)

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The 5 biggest problems & solutions for new au pairs in France

Hello again!

I recently wrote an article for the Franco-British Chamber of Commerce & Industry on the five biggest problems an au pair faces upon arrival in France. While the article focuses on British au pairs, the principles apply to au pairs of all nationalities and is so definitely worth reading.

In the article, I made sure to suggest ways that each host family can help their au pair to overcome these difficulties. Advice for host families is not often included on au pair blogs, and I think it is extremely important, so please do not hesitate to share it with …. (Click title or photo to see more)
By Olivia Brett (Editor)